YouthQuest - Junior High

Tonight we went to LaserQuest - We had a great time playing 2 games, eating pizza and just hanging out. Remember G.I.C.... God is closer than you think!

Our next meeting is June 6 at TMC - snack 'n' chat - 6:30-8:30.

CORNERSTONE YOUTHQUEST BASKETBALL

Today we continued our Character Matters program by talking about courage - "we do the right thing even when it is unpopular." Congrats to Mostafa who won MVP for the juniors. He showed courage on and off the court.

A NOTE TO STARKIDS VOLUNTEERS

Teamwork

How to be a S.U.C.C.E.S.S.F.U.L. team

S = Share a common vision - head in the same direction

U = Understand one another's weaknessess - strengths of many over weaknesses of one

C = Communicate goals clearly - write out specific goals and objectives

C - Communicate regularly - measure the ministry - how did it go this year?

E - Evaluate and adjust - be flexible

S = Share a common direction - the team is responsible, not just one person

S = Show Loyalty - as individuals, submit to the team

F = Focus on the Lord - be aware of Christ's presence with you during the day

U = Unite with a natural fit - develop chemistry

L = Listen to one another - don't be distracted by what you hope to say next

"Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their work: If one falls down, his friend can help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up! Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone? Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken" (Ecclesiastes 4:9-12).

* taken from: Craig Jutila, "Leadership Essentials For Children's Ministry" Group Publishing Inc. Loveland, CO. 2002.

PARENTING WORKSHOP

FAMILY HARMONY:
Getting Along When We're All Different

Do your children and spouse all have the same temperament as you? Do you understand each person in your family perfectly? Do you get along in the same way with each person? Of course not. Everyone in your family is wired with a unique personality. Some are more easygoing while others are more rigid; some are more outgoing while other are more shy; some are more messy while others are, well, you get the idea...

While these differences can often be a source of frustration and stress, they can also be an opportunity to grow stronger as a family. Using key diagnostic tools, this seminar helps you get in touch with how each person in your family is wired. Learn how to champion strengths, complement weaknesses and communicate differences in your family!
Guest Speaker: Laird Crump from Focus on the Family
Date: Saturday May 31st, 2008
Time: 2-4pm
Place: Markham Village Train Station
214 Main Street North (south west of 16th Ave. on Markham Main St.)
Cost: $5 per person

YOUTHQUEST JUNIOR HIGH

Joe's Bro's the Sibling Sellers

On Sunday (May 18) We talked about what being offended means and how it feels to be offended. We also did a skit about Joseph and his brothers. We were looking at Genesis 37

YOUTHQUEST SENIOR HIGH - VIDEO GAME TOURNAMENT

Who: High school students
What: Video game tournament - Guitar Hero, NBA 08 and Fifa 08 (PS2)
Where: The Main Connection (TMC) - 227 Main St. Markham (across from Markham Go Station)
When: FRIDAY MAY 23 - 7-9PM
Why: Why not?



Oh yeah, did I mention that there will be a prize for the ultimate gamer? (A gift certificate from Best Buy)
Oh yeah, did I mention that there will be pizza?

A NOTE TO STARKIDS VOLUNTEERS

SEEK THE DEEP - TEAMWORK

Most psychologists and other relationship experts will tell you there are at least 5 levels of verbal interaction:

Level 1: Entering the serf
- exchanging routine information
Level 2: Moving beyond the beach
- discussing events in other's lives
Level 3: Diving under the waves
- offering opinions and ideas
Level 4: Swimming down to the depths
- sharing feelings and needs
Level 5: Reaching the rock-solid floor
- risking complete transparency

What level are we at?

"Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their work: If one falls down, his friend can help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up! Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone? Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken" (Ecclesiastes 4:9-12).

* taken from: Craig Jutila, "Leadership Essentials For Children's Ministry" Group Publishing Inc. Loveland, CO. 2002.

CORNERSTONE YOUTHQUEST - JUNIOR HIGH SNACK 'N' CHAT

Tonight we looked at our Wild Bible Truth, "God is Like a Lamb." Our key verse was John 1:29, "The next day John saw Jesus coming toward him and said, 'Look, the Lamb of God, who takes away the sin of the world!'" We looked the idea of Jesus as the sacrifice for our sins, discussed ways we can sacrifice for others and prayed about the Mexico mission's trip coming up this year, which 3 of our pre-teens are going on. Remember our next meeting (May 30th, LaserQuest!). Thanks to the Ling's for the great snacks!

CORNERSTONE YOUTHQUEST BASKETBALL

We had a great run of basketball tonight. 41 boys! Our highest number ever! Congrats to Fethi (senior) and Preston (junior) for winning the MVP for showing courage on and off the court. Today we talked about having the courage to ask for help when we need it. Don't be like Kobe in game 4 overtime :)

Coming up... our end of the year program. You do not want to miss it!

JUNIOR HIGH SUNDAY SCHOOL

Shad, Shaq, & Abe the Firemen

On Sunday (May 11) we studied Daniel 3:1-30.

We identified some of our convictions and beliefs, talked about how if we live for God, we will at some time, be called on to stand up for those beliefs in the face of opposition and we decided which convictions and beliefs we're willing to stand by.

Our memory verse was Daniel 3:28

This Friday we are meeting at The Main Connection for Snack 'N' Chat from 6:30-8:30. Our wild Bible truth is, "God is Like a Lamb." This Sunday we'll be looking at, "Joe's Bros the Sibling Sellers" - Responding when someone offends you.

Don't forget... LaserQuest May 30!

SANDWICH RUN

On Friday (May 9) a small group of us (YouthQuest senior high) went downtown to Nathan Phillips Square to hand out sandwiches to homeless people. We learned a lot from listening and were challenged to come out of our comfort zones.Part of our vision is to serve in Markham and beyond. We want to break down all walls of separation. Thanks Shirly for leading us.If you're wondering what those bills are... Ask Shirly about the million dollar question!

A NOTE TO STARKIDS LEADERS

TEAMWORK

Go Ahead, Be Dynamic!

1. Dynamic teams advance unity

- read John 17:21

2. Dynamic teams "flex" to meet changing needs

- can you bend without breaking?

3. Dynamic teams stay focused

- if you try to chase two rabbits, both will escape

4. In dynamic teams, the members value one another

- we go directly to one another if we have something to discuss

5. Dynamic teams play together

- to play together and to encourage one another, we may have to make a dent in our tightly crafted work schedules. Are you willing to make those tough choices for the sake of team health?

"Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their work: If one falls down, his friend can help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up! Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone? Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken" (Ecclesiastes 4:9-12).

* taken from: Craig Jutila, "Leadership Essentials For Children's Ministry" Group Publishing Inc. Loveland, CO. 2002.

CAREER FAIR

When: Saturday May 10th, 2:30-4:30
Where: Angus Glen Community Centre
3990 Major Mac.
Price: Free!

Draws for prizes including gift certificates from Best Buy!
Are you interested in becoming a...

Teacher, Firefighter, Police Officer, Computer Engineer, Lawyer, Social Worker...

Are you looking for...

Information on how to make an informed decision about College/University...

Are you trying to...

Learn about trades, make connections for future jobs and much more?

Then this Career Fair is for you!

SANDWICH RUN

When: Friday May 9th, 2008
Where: Downtown Toronto
Time: 5pm - 10:30pm (meet at the Main Connection @ 5:00 sharp!)
Cost: Bus fare and money for dinner
Why: To share our Christ-inspired lives and to serve the community

* email Kevin if you are coming in order to save a space kevin@cornerstonechurch.on.ca

WEDNESDAY NIGHT BASKETBALL

Congrats to Vikas (Junior) and Abdi (Senior) for winning MVP honours. They displayed courage on and off the court by facing challenges directly. Check out these videos!

CORNERSTONE YOUTHQUEST BASKETBALL

Our Character Matters Trait of the month is Courage, "We face challenges directly. We seek help from others when necessary. We do the right thing even when it may be unpopular. We are able to recognize risks and danger and do not take unwise risks to gain the approval of those around us."

As we come to the end of the year, we have some exciting events happening:

3 on 3 tournament - Senior high - the professor's house - Cost $2 - Wednesday July 2nd @ 6:30

(barbecue included) - prizes including a trophy for the winning team!

End of the year celebration

Juniors - Wednesday June 18th from 6:15 - 7:30pm

Seniors - Wednesday June 18th from 8:00 - 9:15pm

There will be something for every participant of our Wednesday night program who attends, as well as food and prizes for the whole family.

WORST FAST FOODS OF 2008

Worst Lunch/Dinner

1. A&W Chubby Chicken Dinner - 1,230 calories, 68g fat, 3,180 mg sodium

2. Wendy's Triple Everything with cheese - 980 calories, 60 g fat, 2,010 mg sodium

3. KFC Poutine - 970 calories, 54 g fat, 2,610 mg sodium

4. Wendy's Baconator - 840 calories, 51 g fat, 2,720 mg sodium

5. Burger King Poutine - 750 calories, 42 g fat, 2,720 mg sodium

6. Burger King Original Double Whopper - 850 calories, 51 g fat, 990 mg sodium

7. A&W Grandpa Burger with cheese - 752 calories, 48.5 g fat, 1,333 mg sodium

8. Taco Bell Fiesta Taco Salad - 850 calories, 45 g fat, 1,690 mg sodium

9. Subway six-inch Double Coldcut Trio - 660 calories, 39 g fat, 2,160 mg sodium

10. Subway six-inch Double BMT - 630 calories, 34 g fat, 2,640 mg sodium

Worst Breakfast

1. Burger King Enormous Omlette Sandwich

2. McDonald's Big Breakfast

Worst Drink

1. A&W large chocolate milkshake

2. Burger King large fruitopia

3. Harvey's 14 oz chocolate milkshake

- The Markham Economist and Sun - Wellness - Saturday April 26th, 2008 - "Chewing the fat..." by Chris Trabler.

JUNIOR HIGH SUNDAY SCHOOL

On Sunday, we studied John 10:11-12, which talks about the "Good shepherd." Our next Junior high event is a "Snack & Chat" at the Main Connection on May 16th from 6:30-8:30pm. Our topic will be, "God is Like a Lamb." Coincidence?

A NOTE TO STARKIDS LEADERSHIP

TEAMWORK

"Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their work: If one falls down, his friend can help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up! Also, if two lie down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone? Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken" (Ecclesiastes 4:9-12).

How many "strands" are in our ministry team? Are we hanging together? Are we supporting the weight equally so that one person isn't bearing the entire load?

"All of us are smarter than one of us"

"Coming together is a beginning; keeping together is progress; working together is a success" - Henry Ford

* taken from: Craig Jutila, "Leadership Essentials For Children's Ministry" Group Publishing Inc. Loveland, CO. 2002.

MYNET WORSHIP NIGHT

Come out to Markham Youth Network's (MYNET) worship night! The same group that brought you the dodge ball tournament and many other events are now bringing you a youth night featuring the Unionville Alliance Church youth band, games, snacks, a powerful message and much more.
Cost: Free
When: Friday May 4th, 2008.
Time: 6:30-8:30
Place: Markham Missionary Church 5438 Major Mac. Road (between Markham rd and McCowan rd).

YOUTH WEEK 2008

May 4-11 is Youth Week. Check out various programs in the community put on by the Mayor's Youth Task Force.

Sunday May 4 - Youth Week Kick off - Markville Mall - 12:00-3:00pm (Free) - live bands, etc.

Tuesday May 6 - Friendly Feud - Markham Village C.C. 7-9pm - Free

Wednesday May 7 - Innovation Conference - Markham Civic Centre - 8:00am - 2:30pm - $5

Saturday May 10 - Unionville Youth Carnival - Angus Glen C.C. 2:00-4:00pm * Cornerstone's Career Fair is happening at the same time at Angus Glen. Bring your whole family!

Friday May 30 - Youth Idol - Angus Glen C.C. - 7-11pm - Free

For more info, check www.markhamyouth.com